Never Say Never …

LIFE . . . The utmost difficult code to decode . We all go through series of experiences which when taken to an end complies our life . Many of us are stumbled by the setbacks of life , many get bruises even however many are good enough to brush it off and move on . Are such people extra-ordinary ??? Are they gifted with some special healing powers ??? Are they Blessed more than anyone else ???

And the answer is ‘ NO ’ , they aren’t . They are the ordinary people who manage to get that ‘lil extra through days , weeks , months or years of change in themselves . They have the power to heal their wounds like any herb has , the only difference is they learn how to manifest it as a medicine for themselves . They are certainly not Blessed more or less than any one . Its just that they realize that they are Blessed than punished with a life full of struggles and failures .

Many may not be knowing that such people are the ones who have seen the darkest phase and above all broken often to an extent of ending up their life even . Rather they are the ones who never ever thought of getting so very well settled in life getting everything that a person can ever dream of enjoying the bliss of life because they never knew if they will ever be out it or when .

Then what is that extra which brought them to the brighter side of life ????

Its the little spark in them which when concentrated upon turns into a ‘ hope ’ . A hope of not a miracle but of acceptance and realization that things can still be worked even if it turns impossible . Through immense conditioning of mind with positive thoughts every minute , every day they learn to put together in present the available pieces of their broken past to build the castle of their future .

There is a wonderful poem by Robert Frost , an American poet known for his complex social and philosophical themes – ‘ Stopping by Woods on a Snowy Evening ’ with a subsequent stress on the theme of the poem through the use of lines  “ And miles to go before I sleep . . . ” .

Stopping by Woods on a Snowy Evening

By Robert Frost

Whose woods these are I think I know.
His house is in the village though;
He will not see me stopping here
To watch his woods fill up with snow.

My little horse must think it queer
To stop without a farmhouse near
Between the woods and frozen lake
The darkest evening of the year.

He gives his harness bells a shake
To ask if there is some mistake.
The only other sound’s the sweep
Of easy wind and downy flake.

The woods are lovely, dark and deep,
But I have promises to keep,
And miles to go before I sleep,
And miles to go before I sleep.

The poem is simple narrating an incidence of a traveller stopping by woods on a snowy evening . He or she takes in the lovely scene in near-silence, is tempted to stay longer, but acknowledges the pull of obligations and the considerable distance yet to be traveled before he or she can rest for the night . The in depth analysis of the poem reveals how important it is for the traveller to keep moving on even if its silence and peace around . After covering half of his journery through dark and deep woods , he finds a place to rest and just let it be however what tempts him the most is his responsibilities not out of some persuasion but acknowledgement and thats where he hits the bullseye . He tries to convey that no matter how rough the circumstances are or how much a person feels like letting it go , one needs to remind himself/herself to how important it is to ‘ move on ’ . ( Courtesy : http://www.gradesaver.com )

It is said “ if  you ever feel like giving up , recall the purpose of starting it and holding it so long ” . So no matter how the life is , good or bad with best or worst experiences , hit the floor , do what you like , like what you do , never say never and be the best version of yourself because its

 Life – an experience that everybody goes through

Stay good , happy and smiling always !!!